The Tara Scrolls

I often see new finslaves & aspiring subs on sites like Reddit asking:  how do you find a quality goddess? Someone who is serious about her craft & will be as dedicated as I am to the relationship?  Fair question.  The market is saturated with willing brats, Doms, Mommies & other bossy ladies looking for $$$ in this findom thang, but they're not all alike.   WE'RE  not all alike.  Most demand instant payment ("tributes") just to talk & others will take off with your dough after agreeing to a relationship, never speaking to you again after a big payment.  Ghost Doms, I call them, because they go ghost & evaporate the minute you give them a sizeable payment (though this is rare for obvious reasons--what Dom would ditch a reliable cash source before it's tapped out?).  A common complaint is that too many Doms are JUST in it for money and not the fetish aspect, which is a fair observation.  What's a sub to do? How To REAL...