What Kind of Guy Is Into Financial Domination?
It's a common occurrence on sites like Youtube: some clueless broad or faux-intellectual "influencer" bro posts a vid dissing finsubs, using real footage of them completing tasks from their Goddesses as some kind of twisted proof that men today are pathetic, weak or otherwise broken. (I mean they are, but not because of this!) What kind of man would not only allow a woman to treat him like this but PAY her for the privilege?
"Our Men". Because that's not degrading. 🙄
Answer: A man who knows what he wants and isn't afraid to put his pride aside to get it, that's who. One who'd rather skip all the social pleasantries of dating and paying for things in socially acceptable ways & get straight to the good stuff. These finsub men are stronger & more self-aware than the typical faux-masculine Western male could ever hope to be. I'm talking true finsubs now, not the poseurs and poors who complain about being "used" by Doms. The human ATMs, walking wallets & Bank of Big Daddy types who get off on not only the financial aspect of findom but being truly owned, dominated & controlled by their Goddess. The ones willing to complete any painful or humiliating ritual or punishment in order to please her. On the surface it may look just the opposite: a man on his knees with expletives scribbled across his face in permanent marker & whip marks on his thighs--how is that EMPOWERING? For one, it requires saddling of the ego, which takes a massive amount of self-control & humility.
Secondly, these men tend to be highly successful & powerful in their everyday lives and careers which is how they can even afford to partake in this pastime. Just because you see them being shat on by a Dom doesn't mean that's who they are 24/7. How do they behave in the bedroom or the boardroom? Or for the other 99.98% of their day? Often, they're the boss, the administrator, the C-Level Officer who's surrounded by yes-men and yes-women who submit to them because of their position, bank account, last name or the nice things they own. And often it feels very hollow and fake.
Enter findom. The ultimate power exchange.
Findom offers these men a chance to switch roles and view life from the other side of the eightball, an experience very few people will get to have. Only through enduring extreme pain & deprivation does a person learn how strong they really are & how much hardship they can endure. A professional fin/domme is not intimidated by the paypig's wealth or status and thus isn't afraid to put him in his place--on his knees. While this is only a tiny fraction of his life, it helps balance out the other parts in which he calls the shots or, at a minimum, doesn't really have to answer to anyone.
And don't be fooled: an experienced, quality Dom is doing it all in service of the larger goal of improving the sub and helping him grow as a person. Average men hire a Life Coach or therapist; exceptional men hire a findom or femdom. And the results speak for themselves. If this was truly as unpleasant & degrading as you lot make it out to be, it wouldn't be so popular. There are several findom communities on Reddit, a lively community on X.com/Twitter, websites like Findoms.com & findomapp.com.... it's even been written about in major publications like Cosmopolitan.
Everybody has a vice, kink or fetish... even you Puritanical types. In fact you are often some of the freakiest of the bunch. You're not fooling anyone with that Judge Judy act. So before you sit on your high horse & cast stones, consider whether you'd feel comfy with a stranger digging through your texts or browser history & exposing your most private, intimate late night searches. Because that's what this is for these guys--a sexual thrill, a turn-on. We don't choose our turn-ons or our turn-offs, remember. Just because you don't wear yours on your sleeve doesn't make you better than anyone else.
So to answer what type of guy is into Findom, I would say the type who likes to use his money to enrich others. Think of it as a shopping or spending addiction but with another person as the recipient. When a sub sees his Goddess looking and feeling her best, he feels a sense of pride and can say "I did that." (As a footnote, I have to point out the fact that nobody questions when a man is dominant and a woman submissive, which highlights how prevalent sexism still is. 50 Shades of Grey was literally an abuser's manual rebranded as erotic fiction--did anyone ask "what's happening to our women?" when the very real trend of BDSM-related sex toy injuries surged following the book's release? No, because women are expected to play the passive punching bag by everyone in this society, male & female alike).
Truth is, it gets under peoples' skin to see a powerful, strong, dominant woman rejecting that narrative & reversing the roles. Goddess Tara says you can choke on your sexist, backward stereotypes. Disrespectfully.
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