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Male Subs & Toxic Gender Stereotypes

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  Weak, passive, needy.  Wimp.  Sissy.  Slut.  Bitch.   These are just a few of the ugly stereotypes heaped upon male subs.  Every single one is rooted in misogyny. The prevailing belief is that femininity is associated with submission, and there's nothing worse in the world than for a man to be submissive & therefore, feminine.  Those who hold this worldview believe women are just second-class/failed men, far beneath them and barely above "child" & "dog" in the social hierarchy.  The one they incidentally created.  Pretty convenient, eh?  Everything from religion to the political system, military & judicial system is run by & created for men, therefore when a man behaves like a woman he foregoes his innate privilege.  Most "normie" men can't imagine doing that because the barriers protecting their fragile egos won't allow it.  Women are supposed to be the submissive, receptive partners during sex....

Feed Your Fire

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  Ahh, fire.  The most misunderstood of the 4 elements.  And even worse when it comes to fire signs.  We're often labeled hot-headed (true), angry (when appropriate) & "spicy" but that's only half the story.  Take the properties of fire for instance:  bright, hot & destructive.  But destruction isn't always a bad thing.  Sometimes it's necessary for rebirth & change.  Fire can turn thousand-year-old redwood trees to ash in a flash or warm freezing bodies around a campfire.  It cracks the sky open in the form of lightning & brightens your day like the sun.  Heat & fire are needed to cook and purify our food, but they can also scorch and burn it, turning a juicy piece of meat to black crispy char.    In human form fire can be fanatical and electrifying, dramatic & lustful.  But it's ALWAYS intense.  And it rubs off on others in our orbit.  It can be felt in the chemistry between tw...

Punishment, Mama Tara Style

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  I'm often asked "Mama Tara, what are the consequences for displeasing you?"  Indeed, it wouldn't make much sense to promote myself as a tough, ballbusting Goddess if I didn't have a detailed list of hardcore punishments, challenges & games with which to torture you.  I won't be sharing that here, but here's a broad idea of what you can look forward to if you anger or displease me.  They start out relatively mild and get worse as you ascend the Levels.  I decide which one is appropriate for the offense committed.  All with your prior consent, of course.   Level 1:  Pleasure Deprivation Everyone has things they enjoy in their daily lives.  Some of them are sexual, but not all.  Video games, alcohol, junk food, favorite TV shows/series, porn... all of these are examples of things you will be restricted from should you anger Holy Mother.  I might even put your member in a cage & force you to watch your favorite porno for ...

Make Your Move ♟

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  Subs, I know you be all shy & subby & shit, but you're still the one paying for a service.  In most cases you're also men, which gives you double incentive to be the 1st one to make a move.  This is your sign:  Contact that Dom you've been eyeing silently from the sidelines.  Pick her brain & find out what she's all about, what her hobbies, passions & dreams are made of.  Never know what you might find.  Not all of us require "tributes" just to speak--as long as you're genuine (which is pretty easy to tell, trust) you're unlikely to get shot down or treated poorly.  We Goddesses reserve our bitchiest behavior for scammers & obvious time wasters which get very easy to spot after a while.  But if you're just reaching out to see if we're a good match?  Great, that's how it's supposed to work.  So quit cowering in the shadows while everyone else has all the fun-- contact Goddess Tara today!  Don't spend anot...

ABDL Mommy at Your Service!

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  One of my favorite types of subs is the Baby:  Infantile, needy & totally open to suggestion.  That's why I double as an ABDL Mommy when not working with my findom clients.  If you're a bad baby boy or a dirty diaper-loving lady, contact me  to schedule a chat session.  I specialize in wetting, unpotty training & all things pee.... NO poop discussion.  I can be a warm, nurturing caregiver or a cold Dommy Mommy who issues "funishments" for bad behavior--totally up to you.  If this is up your alley, check out my separate Mommy blog, 🧁🧩   Mama Tara's ABDL PlayPlace !  πŸͺπŸ•Ή And don't forget to read over my Terms of Service for that.  It contains a fuller list of the services I provide as well as payment methods accepted, price points & more.  Hope to see you soon, ya big baby.  πŸΌπŸ‘ΆπŸ»

What Kind of Guy Is Into Financial Domination?

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It's a common occurrence on sites like Youtube: some clueless broad or faux-intellectual "influencer" bro posts a vid dissing finsubs, using real footage of them completing tasks from their Goddesses as some kind of twisted proof that men today are pathetic, weak or otherwise broken. (I mean they are , but not because of this!) What kind of man would not only allow a woman to treat him like this but PAY her for the privilege? "Our Men". Because that's not degrading. πŸ™„ Answer: A man who knows what he wants and isn't afraid to put his pride aside to get it, that's who. One who'd rather skip all the social pleasantries of dating and paying for things in socially acceptable ways & get straight to the good stuff. These finsub men are stronger & more self-aware than the typical faux-masculine Western male could ever hope to be. I'm talking true finsubs now, not the poseurs and poors who complain about being "us...

Finding the Right Dom for YOU

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I often see new finslaves & aspiring subs on sites like Reddit asking:  how do you find a quality goddess? Someone who is serious about her craft & will be as dedicated as I am to the relationship?  Fair question.  The market is saturated with willing brats, Doms, Mommies & other bossy ladies looking for $$$ in this findom thang, but they're not all alike.   WE'RE  not all alike.  Most demand instant payment ("tributes") just to talk & others will take off with your dough after agreeing to a relationship, never speaking to you again after a big payment.  Ghost Doms, I call them, because they go ghost & evaporate the minute you give them a sizeable payment (though this is rare for obvious reasons--what Dom would ditch a reliable cash source before it's tapped out?).  A common complaint is that too many Doms are JUST in it for money and not the fetish aspect, which is a fair observation.  What's a sub to do? How To REAL...