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The Truth About Virtual Doms & Sugar Babies

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  What is a "Sugar Baby"?  The official definition:  A young person who receives gifts or money from an older person in exchange for their love, companionship, sex or other forms of intimacy.  Sounds like a pretty "sweet" deal, right?  Then what does a VIRTUAL sugar baby do? It varies for everyone, but for me it's all about the connection.  Forming lasting bonds with people near & far like in the Golden Era of chat rooms & instant messenger but without the risks associated with meeting strangers in person.  We chat, share intimate (often VERY intimate) photos & videos, flirt, bounce ideas off each other, offer support & a nonjudgmental ear but with the added buffer of safety that the internet provides.  We can build trust at our own pace--no pressure or awkward first dates.  And more importantly, neither of us has to worry about having our little "secret life" exposed...  Or worse.  Mutual protection instead of mutu...

Male Sub Subtypes!

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Female Subs: What's Your Sub-Type?

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Submissives.  Like snowflakes or fingerprints, no two are the same.  Some are more obedient while others are like willful, stubborn children in need of punishment.  Male & female subs have a few things in common but are ultimately more unalike than they are alike (article on male subtypes coming soon). This article aims to tease out the 5 major female submissive submissive subtypes.  See yourself in any of these?  More than one perhaps?  Totally normal!   The Baby - 👼🏻 Pure, honest, good & eager to please but somewhat delicate, the female Baby may be an ABDL or just someone who embodies the traits of a small child.  The innocent Baby thrives on encouragement & praise, naturally falling into the role of 'good girl' with little prodding.  She's excited to learn & easily molded by the right Dom or "Mommy".  While needy at times, the Baby wants nothing more than to love & be cared for in return.    🤱🏽 ...

Freedom Is Overrated

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...finpig freedom, at least.  So many choices, each with the potential to destroy you or waste your little piggie life on meaningless brainrot drivel.  Meanwhile your living space is a mess, your body's going to shit & your social life is non-existent.  Work, eat, shit, sleep, goon, repeat.  Is this how you imagined your life as a child? Of course it isn't.  Some people in your position go to therapy or hire a "Life Coach" (which is really just a boring vanilla domme if you think about it).  Or Goddess forbid, put on a Jordan Peterson video. 🤮 That's fine if being asked "how something makes you FEEL" on a loop or getting bossed around sans the fun part is helpful to you, but there is a better way.  Join a cult.  The Cvlt of Tara. 🧜🏻‍♀ 🛐 My rigorous program of structured assignments, discipline, confession, atonement, sweet rewards & brutal punishments will turn even the most problematic porcine into a True Believer.  Whether you ...

How Much Pain Can You Handle?

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 Just how much PAIN do you like with your pleasure?  It's an important question for any domme to ask her sub when getting to know them. I look at the pain question as a spectrum, with extreme pain lovers (Masochists) at one end and people like me with a pain tolerance in Hell at the other.  Masochists prefer and even require what others would consider extreme levels of pain in order to experience sexual excitement & feel "alive", though again they're in the minority even among BDSM lovers.  They may be into genital torture, electric shocks, flogging, caning and other forms of striking with objects & pretty much anything that causes a stinging/burning/throbbing/aching sensation. They may even enjoy things that pierce the skin such as needles or hanging from hooks, which is a step too far for this Dom.  No offense to those who are into that though. Most BDSM practitioners are somewhere closer to the middle--a good spanking, tickle torture, rope bondage, ed...

Pu$$y Worship 🪷

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I talk a lot about punishments, humiliation challenges & the like.  But Goddess Tara knows that positive reinforcement & rewards are every bit as effective & important in a balanced Dom/sub relationship.  It's no different than parenting a rebellious child & training them up in the way they should go--you must be consistent over time, never engaging in intermittent reinforcement or giving in to their tantrums or insolence.  That's the worst thing you can do because it teaches them they can..... wait, what am I telling YOU this for?   Back on topic, there's no better way to reward an obedient, loyal sub or piggie than by sending them high def pics of my pretty petals to worship.  Much more than a mere sex organ, the yoni is the portal to pleasure, pain, to life on Earth itself.  Some even believe that the "white tunnel of light" we see as we exit this plane of existence is actually the view as we pass through our next mother's birth ca...

Accessorize

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How would you little piss loving swamp-daddies feel about sporting THIS sleek, fashionable accessory at your next black tie gala?  🤣 Goddess Tara doesn't actually have one of these, mind you.  But the though of a big shot "power broker" donning this contraption in public does give her a good belly laff.  And the "Piss" socks are a great touch.  If you contact me looking for degradation or humiliation, you WILL be given dares & challenges that are sure to whittle your pride down to a nub in no time. Now back to online window shopping.  A Goddess has to stay up-to-date on the latest in extreme fetish trends.  💅🏻  

My Mental Domme Game: Dark Psychology & Mind Control

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As stated in my Terms & Conditions, I have a formal education in Psychology, which I can apply in one of two ways in my domme work:  as a warm, active listener who provides support & gentle guidance ("Dr. Ruth") 🛋 🧓 , or as a way to get my hooks in so deep you struggle to break free while twisting the proverbial knife into your dura mater like an ice pick in the hands of Walter Freeman's (" M ary K ate ULTRA ")  🧠⛏ .  Allow me to explain.  You see, my psych background taught me a lot but because I'm not licensed or practicing in the psych field, I'm not bound by their dumb little ethical codes.  That means I'm free to experiment on my little piggies until they squeeee with no consequences.  (With their full consent, of course).  Hypnosis, psychic driving, sleep deprivation, physical or sexual torture... all considered above-board in my line of work.  In other words, I know just enough to be dangerous while also not being...

Show Me Your Toybox

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Your BDSM toybox, that is.  I ask all new clients to "show me their wares" early on so I know what they're working with.  Blindfolds, handcuffs?  Fine.  Paddle, crop, nipple clamps, tickler, penis/pussy pump?  Very good.  E-stim machine, thumpers, tawse, cane, sounding rod?  Excellent.  Something even  more exotic and ouchy?    🤩 ⛓ 🔌 🪡🪛 🧊 🕯🔥 Whether you have all of the above or nothing more sophisticated than an old belt or makeshift spanking board, Goddess Tara is highly skilled in putting these tools to use in creative ways for maximum impact.  Pleasure & pain can be 2 sides of the same coin, at least for a certain subset of people (get it?  Sub set?).  Masochists (aka "submissives") have been shown to have higher pain tolerances than "normies," which explains why they crave things that sting, bite, burn or throb mixed in with their vanilla sex play.  This is because soft touch or sensual, slow/rhy...

Periodic Table of Kink: Where Do You Fall?

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Click to enlarge   While I can't guarantee I'm down with all of these (no puke, poop, blood consumption stuff  🙅🏻‍♀ ), Goddess T is open to exploring most kinks & fetishes with her subjects.  As long as it's legal & reasonably safe, there's a good chance I'm willing to go there (or already have).  The only way to know is to ask! Hit me up in the comments here or message me on X.com to inquire about a specific kink, fetish or fantasy.  I guarantee your identity & the contents of our chats will never be shared publicly.  What's said or shared in the chat STAYS in the chat.  Only 2 exceptions:  if you're into being publicly outed or you ask me for $$$.  Scammers aren't entitled to the privacy afforded my clients. Cum tell Goddess Tara all the things you could never tell your spouse or even your therapist.  Let Holy Mother help you explore your dark side & purge your troubled conscience of these sins the best way she knows...

Spanking

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Do you enjoy being struck on the backside with a paddle, flog, cat-o-nine-tails, belt or other stinging object?  Being forced to bend over or kneel down by a strong, sexy domme and punished harshly for being a bad boy?  If so, you likely have a spanking fetish or kink and you're not alone.  Goddess Tara loves few things more than watching a slave-pig spank himself until his ass is bright red, his cock & balls bouncing from the sudden jolt of pain as it enters his body.  His face scrunching up in pain as the jolt burrows deeper & hotter into his supple flesh.   🍑💥 🔗 Want more?  Keep backtalking! If you have the guts to reveal your spanking fetish to Goddess T, there's a good chance she'll challenge you to give your booty a few good raps as she watches, or to send photo evidence of your spanky session afterward.  She'll also want a detailed report of how this kinky pastime started for you.  Did a hot female teacher use the paddle on ...

A Day in the Life of a Professional Findom

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I'm often asked:  "Goddess, what's it like to have your bills paid by generous guys who want nothing in return except to be shaded, degraded & humiliated?  What does a findom DO all day?"  Well let me level with you, it's a thankless job but somebody's got to do it.  (However it does beat working in retail).  Here's a look at a typical day in the life of Goddess Tara.  Times are approximate & may vary by an hour or so: 12:00 p.m . - Roll out of bed, eat and get ready for the day.   Usually a filling breakfast (technically "lunch" for normies) like an omelet, apple-cinnamon pancakes, Raspberry Pain au Chocolat or Belgian waffles with a few strips of bacon.  Maybe quiche Lorraine or a few scones.  Oh, and coffee--ALWAYS coffee!  Something like a French vanilla cappuccino or flat white w/ extra espresso.  But I digress.  Once my little Goddess belly is full, I get dressed & primp for about 30 minutes (gotta look ...

Rates, Fees & Contractual Obligations (Spoiler: There Are None)

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If you had to wager a guess at the going rate for a virtual Dominatrix chat session, what would your guess be?  Prices for virtual/chat dominatrix services vary greatly, but according to Fediverse , typical rates run anywhere from $4-$30 per minute.  That's echoed by Mario329915 here  when discussing the roles & services of an online Domme.  Granted, that was in 2023, so prices may have gone up since then.  In addition, some Doms require an upfront subscription fee or upfront charge of anywhere from $50 to $500 !  It's all there in black and white...  (Click to enlarge) 😳 I wouldn't do that to my subs.  Not in this economy.  A live chat sesh with Godde$$ Tara costs on average $30 for 30 minutes via X.com Direct Message , email or Reddit DM --your choice.  A static message convo --that is, a back-and-forth discussion that's NOT live in realtime-- costs around $20 per day regardless of how many times I reply (minimum of 1 reply dail...

Goddess Tara's Official Terms & Conditions

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Thinking of retaining me as your personal findom/dominatrix/femdom/sugar baby?  Then I need you to read through the following.  Every relevant piece of info, from my professional background & experience to my boundaries, payment methods & specialities is spelled out here.  Yes, it's a bit wordy (and anything BUT sexy!) but it will save us both time in the end by weeding out candidates who are a bad fit.   By the end you'll know for sure whether to pursue a relationship with me so read on subs, piggies, daddies, mommies & kinksters! If you have any questions, don't hesitate to ask!  I don't bite (unless you're into that).  😈 - Apps & Sites Used:  Twitter/X.com, Reddit & email. - Payment Methods:  Cashapp & Bitcoin. - Stats:  White, female, 26 years old.  5'2, 127 lbs.  Dark hair/light eyes.  C-cup breasts, non-smoker, no kids/no STDs/no hard drugs.  Based in Central U.S. The most you'll ever s...

Crossdressers, Transvestites & Transgender Folx: Welcome to the Harem

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  So you're into crossdressing, hunh?  Maybe a full-on closeted tranny.  Whether you enjoy sporting the occasional panty under your work slacks or consider yourself more of an undercover Caitlyn Jenner, Goddess T has a place for you in her harem.  Transvestites, sissy boys, drag queens/kings, transgenders, transsexuals.  Doesn't matter.  There are no sacred cows here and you will be made to submit just like all the other slave boys & girls, so don't you dare get self-righteous with me.  Not unless you want a verbal (or physical) lashing.  ⛓💥 Indian sissy crossdresser  What's the naughty maid got up her skirt there? Even gay boys have been known to get weak in the knees around Holy Mother.  No judgment here.  And you already know the Goddess loves women & Mommies .  Makes me no difference how you identify or what's between your leggies.  I love making men in women's clothing bow down & complete humiliation cha...