How Much Pain Can You Handle?

 Just how much PAIN do you like with your pleasure?  It's an important question for any domme to ask her sub when getting to know them. I look at the pain question as a spectrum, with extreme pain lovers (Masochists) at one end and people like me with a pain tolerance in Hell at the other. 

Masochists prefer and even require what others would consider extreme levels of pain in order to experience sexual excitement & feel "alive", though again they're in the minority even among BDSM lovers.  They may be into genital torture, electric shocks, flogging, caning and other forms of striking with objects & pretty much anything that causes a stinging/burning/throbbing/aching sensation. They may even enjoy things that pierce the skin such as needles or hanging from hooks, which is a step too far for this Dom.  No offense to those who are into that though.

Most BDSM practitioners are somewhere closer to the middle--a good spanking, tickle torture, rope bondage, edging/orgasm denial, some mild humiliation or servitude-- while true "normies" who prefer slow rhythmic love-making with wine, candles & soft music ("vanilla sex") are all the way at the opposite end from Masochists.  That's where you can find me: relaxing with my fave mind-numbing elixir while some sexy slave alternates between rubbing my feet & running to grab me ice cold snacks, actively avoiding pain like my life depends on it.  Unless I'm inflicting it, of course.  😈

ALL of these are valid & legit, by the way.  As long as you're respecting the other person's boundaries & communicating clearly, it's all good.  IMO it takes someone at the extreme end of this spectrum to truly complement & understand a person at the other end.  That's why "Sadism" and "Masochism" go together like peanut butter & jelly, Batman & Robin, cops & donuts, Netflix & chill.  Can't have one without the other--wherever one goes, the other is sure to follow, and you can probably guess which one's trailing behind with its pathetic limp tail between its weak little bowlegs.  

...Masochists.  It's them.  They're the ones trailing behind.   🚶🏻‍♀ 🐕‍🦺