The Truth About Virtual Doms & Sugar Babies
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What is a "Sugar Baby"? The official definition: A young person who receives gifts or money from an older person in exchange for their love, companionship, sex or other forms of intimacy. Sounds like a pretty "sweet" deal, right? Then what does a VIRTUAL sugar baby do?
It varies for everyone, but for me it's all about the connection. Forming lasting bonds with people near & far like in the Golden Era of chat rooms & instant messenger but without the risks associated with meeting strangers in person. We chat, share intimate (often VERY intimate) photos & videos, flirt, bounce ideas off each other, offer support & a nonjudgmental ear but with the added buffer of safety that the internet provides. We can build trust at our own pace--no pressure or awkward first dates. And more importantly, neither of us has to worry about having our little "secret life" exposed... Or worse. Mutual protection instead of mutually assured destruction. Most of the rewards of an in-person relationship w/ none of the risks. And you can still have as many IRL partners as you like!
Why Virtual?
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For all the wonderful people & business connections I've made in this journey, I've also run into some naysayers who've accused me of everything from being "a man LARPing as a woman" to wanting "something for nothing" because I refuse to reveal my personal info or meet in person. To that I say: Bullshit.
Turn on your critical thinking skills for just a second. Educate yourselves about the risks of IRL sex work or even just being a woman in a virtual world. Female gamers get death and rape threats, ffs. Spend an afternoon perusing 4Chan or Kiwi Farms from, say, your mom or sister's POV; familiarize yourself with incel "Red Pill" culture & the manosphere... the Pick-Up Artist and Forever Alone subcultures to which killer Elliot Rodger belonged. Research how many serial killers have exclusively or primarily targeted female sex workers (the Green River Killer, the Grim Sleeper, the LISK to name a FEW). Now add doxxing, sextortion, swatting & other modern methods of abuse & torture and you start to see where I'm coming from...
But this isn't just about me. Not even close.
You see, clients who buy sex, dates or "the girlfriend experience" from online sugar babies or escorts are also at huge personal risk of horrors up to and including death. In Colombia, it's customary for strippers to drug men with scopolamine aka "Devil's Breath," a deadly powder that turns victims into zombies who are led by the women to their ATMs to drain their accounts in a semi-comatose state. Some survive and some die of heart attacks but either way, the perpetrators are gone before sunrise so they never have to deal with the fallout. While scopolamine is not common in the States, plenty of other colorless, tasteless date rape drugs ARE, such as liquid etizolam, clonazolam, ultra potent phenazepam, GHB & more. Men may also have their debit card info cloned by "pocket skimmers" or their identity stolen by something as simple as the woman learning the combination of your license plate number, real name & phone number. Actually, all we'd need is your real cell phone number to completely wreck your financial life. See for yourself:
Read it and weep.
In other words, your inability to imagine a scenario has zero effect on its likelihood of happening. I may not be a thieving scammer & you may not be a serial killing madman, but the possibility is always there. As long as you're meeting total strangers (who are likely to have ulterior motives like sex, love, money, status or something else) in person, you put yourself in danger. And not the fun, exciting kind either. The kind that could leave you destitute or your family grieving and wondering what happened to your body. You could just as easily get taken for a ride, hurt or killed by a Dom or sugar baby as she could get hurt by you.
This is why I refuse to endanger either of us by sharing my real personal info or agreeing to meet in person. And I'd NEVER ask you for those things either. All my payment methods are discreet & anonymous as well. The risk simply outweighs any possible reward. If this doesn't work for you, fine, but to accuse me of being a phony because I put safety & privacy over profit or a nut is asinine.
What Virtual Doms & Sugar Babies Are Not
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We're the fantasy, not the fairytale. 👰🏻♀🤵🏽♂
The beauty of the internet is that it gives us the ability to connect with anyONE from anyWHERE at anyTIME with very little hassle or risk so long as we use it responsibly. If you're looking for a potential wifey or live-in partner, try local meet-ups, speed dating, matchmakers or simply going out in person to events you enjoy--ballgames, concerts, the public library, church. That's where you're most likely to find a compatible partner anyway--not social media or hookup sites like Tinder, Grindr or the like. While some things can be conveniently purchased online, a compatible life partner is generally not one of them.
Don't let your dick--or your heart--override your brain and common sense. Understand the risks of meeting online strangers & the benefits of hiring a virtual Dom/Sugar Baby and do it today. A good virtual Dom or sugar will get inside her client's head by asking the important questions early, making any "distance" feel trivial.
Why Virtual?
🩷 🫱🏾🫲🏻 💙
For all the wonderful people & business connections I've made in this journey, I've also run into some naysayers who've accused me of everything from being "a man LARPing as a woman" to wanting "something for nothing" because I refuse to reveal my personal info or meet in person. To that I say: Bullshit.
Turn on your critical thinking skills for just a second. Educate yourselves about the risks of IRL sex work or even just being a woman in a virtual world. Female gamers get death and rape threats, ffs. Spend an afternoon perusing 4Chan or Kiwi Farms from, say, your mom or sister's POV; familiarize yourself with incel "Red Pill" culture & the manosphere... the Pick-Up Artist and Forever Alone subcultures to which killer Elliot Rodger belonged. Research how many serial killers have exclusively or primarily targeted female sex workers (the Green River Killer, the Grim Sleeper, the LISK to name a FEW). Now add doxxing, sextortion, swatting & other modern methods of abuse & torture and you start to see where I'm coming from...
But this isn't just about me. Not even close.
You see, clients who buy sex, dates or "the girlfriend experience" from online sugar babies or escorts are also at huge personal risk of horrors up to and including death. In Colombia, it's customary for strippers to drug men with scopolamine aka "Devil's Breath," a deadly powder that turns victims into zombies who are led by the women to their ATMs to drain their accounts in a semi-comatose state. Some survive and some die of heart attacks but either way, the perpetrators are gone before sunrise so they never have to deal with the fallout. While scopolamine is not common in the States, plenty of other colorless, tasteless date rape drugs ARE, such as liquid etizolam, clonazolam, ultra potent phenazepam, GHB & more. Men may also have their debit card info cloned by "pocket skimmers" or their identity stolen by something as simple as the woman learning the combination of your license plate number, real name & phone number. Actually, all we'd need is your real cell phone number to completely wreck your financial life. See for yourself:
Read it and weep.
In other words, your inability to imagine a scenario has zero effect on its likelihood of happening. I may not be a thieving scammer & you may not be a serial killing madman, but the possibility is always there. As long as you're meeting total strangers (who are likely to have ulterior motives like sex, love, money, status or something else) in person, you put yourself in danger. And not the fun, exciting kind either. The kind that could leave you destitute or your family grieving and wondering what happened to your body. You could just as easily get taken for a ride, hurt or killed by a Dom or sugar baby as she could get hurt by you.
This is why I refuse to endanger either of us by sharing my real personal info or agreeing to meet in person. And I'd NEVER ask you for those things either. All my payment methods are discreet & anonymous as well. The risk simply outweighs any possible reward. If this doesn't work for you, fine, but to accuse me of being a phony because I put safety & privacy over profit or a nut is asinine.
What Virtual Doms & Sugar Babies Are Not
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We're the fantasy, not the fairytale. 👰🏻♀🤵🏽♂
The beauty of the internet is that it gives us the ability to connect with anyONE from anyWHERE at anyTIME with very little hassle or risk so long as we use it responsibly. If you're looking for a potential wifey or live-in partner, try local meet-ups, speed dating, matchmakers or simply going out in person to events you enjoy--ballgames, concerts, the public library, church. That's where you're most likely to find a compatible partner anyway--not social media or hookup sites like Tinder, Grindr or the like. While some things can be conveniently purchased online, a compatible life partner is generally not one of them.
Don't let your dick--or your heart--override your brain and common sense. Understand the risks of meeting online strangers & the benefits of hiring a virtual Dom/Sugar Baby and do it today. A good virtual Dom or sugar will get inside her client's head by asking the important questions early, making any "distance" feel trivial.
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