Goddesses & Doms: What's YOUR Findom Story?

Moi

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Age When You Started:  19
Age Today:  26
Biggest Send/Gift:  $2,126 (That number had special significance so I'll always remember it lol).
Favorite Gift:  No gifts, just $$$.
Best Year:  2020
Worst Year:  2023
Craziest Game or Punishment:  Tabasco sauce condom   😱
Payment Address:  bc1q992662ke2ypdsj0q6gtzdnfehuhuwk4uymg336  (Bitcoin)
                                 cash.app/$omebodystopmeee  (Cashapp)

My Story

The year was 2018.  I was 19 and a college freshman at a local regional school.  Tuition was dirt cheap compared to some places, but I had no money so it made no difference.  I was working at the campus cafeteria to help offset the cost of my dorm, but this left little time to do anything but sleep & study.  I wanted the real college experience all my rich girlfriends were getting: homecoming, ball games, Greek life, parties, theatre, rolling into class hungover and wearing pajamas... not getting home at 10 p.m. smelling like Sloppy Joes with barely enough energy to shower and pass out.   😩

That's when a girlfriend told me about findom.  Fin-what?!  So young, so naive.  I thought it sounded too good to be true: guys who wanted to send you money but wanted nothing in return except maybe some degradation, bullying, blackmail or feet pics?  That'll be the day. 

It wasn't long until I was introduced to Jake* my first paypig.  That was a crazy ride; the full story can be found here for those interested.  I learned a lot of valuable lessons from that experience, the most important regarding privacy & just how much I felt comfortable sharing of myself in the future.  Overall it was a fruitful high paying relationship though, especially for someone my age.  But the dramatic & unexpected way it ended caused me to take a step back from findom for a hot minute.  (From there I ventured into the world of ABDL Mommying, which is similar in a lot of ways but also quite different.  I still do the virtual Mommy gig to this day!)

Since then I've worked with a number of findom subs & pigs from all walks of life: some married, some single.  As old as 57 & as young as 24.  American, British, Aussie, French, Dutch in every industry/sector you can imagine, from banking/finance to real estate to corporate law... All virtual. 

Business picked up dramatically in 2020 during COVID mania & remained strong through most of 2021 before hitting a ceiling and promptly bottoming out in 2022.  2023 was my worst year ever in terms of clients & earnings.  Seemed like the return to "normal" was a big step backward for a lot of us virtual/work-from-home peeps.  I ended up briefly moving in with my mom at the end of that year.  I'd graduated college in May 2022 so it did feel like a step backward, I must admit, but I told myself it was just temporary. 

I turned 25 in February of 2024 & landed a couple new clients around that time.  The good thing about living with your parents is you can save up money; the downside is the total lack of privacy.  Eventually my mom insisted on knowing where my $$$ was coming from, to which I idiotically muttered "Finmtech" with my hand covering my mouth.   🤦🏻‍♀

"Fin-what?" she shot back.  (My thoughts exactly).  

"It's an online company.  That produces.  Content.  For people." I vaguely alluded, praying she'd buy it.

"Oh.  Well as long as its legal" she mused, walking away.

Close call.  I knew I needed to move out for some time but all the low-rent places were full.  So I got on every waiting list and waited.  And waited.  I finally got a humble little place of my own in December '24.  I turned 26 in February this year & still live in my quaint 1-br apartment by myself.  I currently have 2 ABDL clients & 1 finsub who cover nearly all my rent & bills.  I've never met anyone in person or "turned a trick" in my life, nor have I ever been to jail.  No pregnancies, STDs, drug ODs, financial debt or irresponsible life choices.  Never even had a speeding ticket!  I mind my own business and believe in the "live & let live" credo as long as you're not harming anyone else.  I just can't see myself getting married, having kids or working a 9-to-5 job.  No, what works for one is not right for all.  One woman's dream is another Goddess's nightmare...  

Today I'm active on Reddit & Twitter and maintain this blog in between draining and punishing my pigs & subs.  For anyone looking to get into this line of work, please be advised: it IS work and a full-time job at that.  Between building a rep, establishing boundaries and Terms of Service, learning to spot scammers/time wasters & networking with other goddesses/subs, you can easily put in 40 hours per week.  But does it beat fast food or retail work?  Abso-fucking-lutely.  😘

So that's my findom story in a nutshell.  Love to hear yours!