What's Your Sign?

I know, I know: cliche question.  But your sun sign can tell a lot about you before you even introduce yourself.  Astrology has been poo-pooh'ed by all the science types in recent years, yet it continues to be used by world leaders in countries like India where it also plays a key role in important everyday tasks like helping matchmakers find suitable marriage partners for single people ready to settle down. 

Different countries have differing Zodiac charts, such as the Chinese zodiac & Mayan "Tzolkin" Calendar, and these traditions date back millennia.  There's also the Persian, Yoruba & Jewish astrology charts.  Even in places where it's not used to make serious life decisions, astrology can still be used as a fun & lighthearted way to provide insight & general guidance on issues like love, wealth, health & personal growth. 


Love & Compatibility

When it comes to finding the mate who will be the most compatible match for you, it's often your polar opposite (the sign situated directly across from you on the big Zodiac Wheel).  People today tend to want someone who mirrors all their interests, beliefs & goals but it wasn't always that way.  According to Sam Vaknin, author & Professor of Psychology & Business Studies, this is a sign of the increasing narcissism in our society and a major reason modern relationships fall apart.  The most effective relationships are built on complementary differences that equal a more well-rounded unit, not two identical people whose every goal, belief, strength & weakness mirrors the other person's.  If you want an unquestioning, non-dissenting clone, start a cult.  Relationships are all about bridging gaps & working together via communication & cooperation to make shared dreams a reality.  

Here's a list of each sign & their ideal match:


♈ - Aries.  Fire sign; Mars.  Match: Libra.
♉ - Taurus.  Earth sign; Venus.  Match: Scorpio.
♊ - Gemini.  Air sign; Mercury.  Match:  Sagittarius.
♋ - Cancer.  Water sign; Moon.  Match:  Capricorn.
♌ - Leo.  Fire sign; Sun.  Match:  Aquarius.
♍ - Virgo.  Earth sign; Mercury.  Match: Pisces.
♎ - Libra.  Air sign; Venus.  Match:  Aries.
♏ - Scorpio.  Water sign; Mars & Pluto.  Match:  Taurus.
♐ - Sagittarius.  Fire sign; Jupiter.  Match:  Gemini.
♑ - Capricorn.  Earth sign; Saturn.  Match:  Cancer.
♒ - Aquarius.  Air sign; Saturn & Uranus.  Match:  Leo.
♓ -  Pisces.  Water sign; Neptune.  Match: Virgo.




The Signs in Virtual Dom & Sugar Relationships

So how does this apply to virtual sugar baby & findom relationships?  This is where it gets interesting.  Because virtual sugar baby, Dom/sub & similar relationships don't require cohabiting, monogamy or the other daily struggles of being in a committed relationship, there's a lot more wiggle room within this paradigm. 

Even if you & your chosen virtual partner are not an ideal Zodiac match, you can still have a great time together.  In fact, sometimes signs that are terrible matches as partners can be among the most fun and exciting as virtual partners.  Say you have a domme who's a Scorpio,  Gemini or Aries--3 headstrong signs that are generally considered "intense" or intimidating.  In a relationship you'd never wanna see an Aries with a Cancer or Capricorn; ditto a Gemini + Pisces or Virgo.  And Scorpio + Aquarius or Leo = bad news in love.   

But in a purely fun long-distance/online relationship?  Far less opportunity for clashing personalities and agendas.  As long as both parties respect each other's time & communicate their needs/expectations clearly, there's much more room for experimentation & "bending" the typical rules.   

So what's your sign & how much stock do you put into things like astrology, Tarot & other ancient "New Age" philosophies?  Goddess Tara is #1 in the Zodiac, a fiery Aries.  Birthstone: diamond 💎 (hint-hint).  My 1st Daddy was a Leo and I currently have a Taurus paypig & a Capricorn Daddy.  I don't know what sign all these scammers are, but I'm telling myself they're Ophiuchus.  All of 'em. 👏🏼